{"id":279,"date":"2016-12-30T21:36:04","date_gmt":"2016-12-31T02:36:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/heidimayo.com\/spiritblog\/?p=279"},"modified":"2016-12-31T21:31:02","modified_gmt":"2017-01-01T02:31:02","slug":"happy-new-year","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/heidimayo.com\/spiritblog\/2016\/12\/happy-new-year\/","title":{"rendered":"Happy New Year"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s hard to believe that this is my 2nd New Year free and clear! Time has flown. I was just mentioning to my husband how I&#8217;d have loved to have been invited out to some big bash this year (even though he really hates going out late), so I could go and be perfectly clear and present while just about everyone else gets shitfaced.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Over this past year I&#8217;ve done several funerals, some high family drama, parties, holidays and events, and I am happy to say that I relish not drinking! \u00a0It is just so cool to be totally present to life.<\/p>\n<p>A few times I have been with a friend or family member who was drunk, and have thought to myself, &#8220;Thank you for reminding me why I prefer not drinking!&#8221; But I don&#8217;t say it out loud; I think they already know that.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>If you are worried about feeling left out or not fitting in for New Year&#8217;s celebrations, take heart. \u00a0That is only that little fucking monster trying to get fed. When the idea strikes, just say, &#8220;Nice try asshole,&#8221; and move on to better ideas. \u00a0My husband went out for a smoke this evening, and the little beast tried using that one on me. It was quicker than a split second, and I laughed. Nice try, but no fucking way am I going to get re-addicted.<\/p>\n<p>Get some\u00a0<a href=\"http:\/\/heidimayo.com\/spiritblog\/2016\/03\/switchflippers-anyone\/#comment-388\">switchflipper <\/a>stuff and put it in a nice glass, and live it up. Cheers!<\/p>\n<p>Stay tuned for my next installment: 24% Happier (or Take Five)<\/p>\n<p>HAPPY NEW YEAR!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s hard to believe that this is my 2nd New Year free and clear! Time has flown. I was just mentioning to my husband how I&#8217;d have loved to have been invited out to some <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/heidimayo.com\/spiritblog\/2016\/12\/happy-new-year\/\">Read More &#8230;<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":285,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[8,85],"tags":[61,69,28,86],"class_list":["post-279","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-journal","category-update","tag-alcohol-free","tag-ethanol-free","tag-freedom","tag-happy-new-year"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/heidimayo.com\/spiritblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2016\/12\/rockman-sm.jpg","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p7kyf1-4v","jetpack-related-posts":[],"post_mailing_queue_ids":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/heidimayo.com\/spiritblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/279","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/heidimayo.com\/spiritblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/heidimayo.com\/spiritblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heidimayo.com\/spiritblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heidimayo.com\/spiritblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=279"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/heidimayo.com\/spiritblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/279\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":281,"href":"https:\/\/heidimayo.com\/spiritblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/279\/revisions\/281"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heidimayo.com\/spiritblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/285"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/heidimayo.com\/spiritblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=279"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heidimayo.com\/spiritblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=279"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/heidimayo.com\/spiritblog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=279"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}